Hearts Full of Love

Just a few weeks ago, I had the great pleasure of photographing Karen and Joe’s wedding. Weddings are a big part of what I do, and I enjoy every one of them for the happiness and sense of celebration that ties them all together in a chain of love. I also love them for what makes them unique.

This wedding was no exception.

Karen’s dad is no longer with us, so understandably there was a lot of emotion around his not being there. In Chinese culture, the tea ceremony demonstrates respect for the older generations. Here, in Saratoga’s tranquil and elegant Hakone Gardens, we are at the same venue where our lovely Demara and Reynold got married. The guests witnessed the bride and groom serving tea to their parents. When Karen’s turn came, everyone—me included—was completely choked up. Karen knelt and offered tea to her mom and also to her dad whose tea cup was carefully placed on the empty chair right next to her.

Yes, the chair was empty, but the hearts of everyone at that wedding were as full as the cups of tea. I won’t forget this scene anytime soon or the tradition that it honors, and I know that Karen and Joe won’t either.

- Michael Soo

On the road again...

When I think about Chanel and Peter’s recent wedding, the first words that come to mind after “How great!” are “Wow, what a trip!” And I mean that in the best possible way. Here’s how it all came down…

This gorgeous couple’s ceremony was to be held at Trinity Episcopal Cathedral in San Jose. Chanel checked into the nearby Fairmont Hotel to dress and have her make-up done to perfection. She was lookin’ absolutely great, and everybody was in high spirits and full of anticipation. So far, so good.

The next step in the plan was to head south—an hour’s drive—to the Cinnabar Hills Golf Club to photograph the wedding party. The shoot went like a dream, the shots looked great, and with our mission accomplished, we all jumped into our cars and hit the road back to San Jose.

Chanel, who had been pretty cool, calm, and collected up until then was beginning to get just a touch flustered. Think about it. There was her makeup to keep fresh, her dress to keep unwrinkled, and a million other things to keep straight.

But everything went great. After a beautiful ceremony at the historic church, we went back to Cinnabar Hills for the reception.

All in all, a 10-hour day just packed with action. Chanel and Peter had booked a couple of hours less, but I believe in putting in whatever it takes to get the job done right. Getting a great result is what makes what we do so worthwhile. That and the smiles of pure joy on the faces of the bride and groom and their families.

- Michael Soo

Love conquers all

It was late morning. Our absolutely adorable couple, Karen and Joe were waiting for the makeup artist, Tiffany to finish up Karen's look. We were headed out for their engagement session, a few spots that I photographed a mere few days ago. Legion of Honor, Palace of Fine Arts and Baker's Beach. Déjà vu. Karen loved the image I took above for Jen and Matt, and wished to recreate it for themselves. It's usually not an issue, weather permitting.

That was the beginning of the problem. Fog rolled in and covered every inch of the beach and especially the Golden Gate Bridge. The 20 minutes hike to the location began to look rather pointless. Neither the sunset nor the Golden Gate Bridge was visible. Even the path just 100 yards in front of us began to disappear.

I turned to Karen and said, "We'll not catch the beautiful sunset and the Golden Gate Bridge today. However, we'll capture amazing mood in our imagery that no other couples has!!!" Though skeptical, they did brighten up and continued the hike. When we reached the beach, I placed Karen and Joe peacefully on the exact same rock that Jen and Matt were standing a few days ago and I changed my angle completely. Their beautiful tranquil look were surrounded by angry waves that swirled and splashed around them like a perfect storm.

Same rock, different mood. I named the image, "Love conquers all"

- Michael Soo

Keeping engagement sessions engaging!

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Engagement sessions are not just bringing_a_couple_out_anywhere_to_photograph. It's a big deal for us. We plan the locations (nature versus architecture), schedule (time and location for the sunset) and wardrobe matching with the couples. We'll ensure that our most amazing makeup artist and hair stylist are on board for the shoot. At times, we'll go as far as to invite our couples for a home cooked meal while we talk about the upcoming shoot while we psyche each other up for the fun filled day of shooting.

I'm a foodie. So, it's not one of those mac-n-cheese dinner, but white truffle cheese, salad with drizzled pomegranate reduction dressing, shrimp bisque, medium-rare grilled tenderloin steak, banana fosters spread over grilled peaches-a la hot/cold/sour/sweet combo. Mmmmph..mmmmmph. :P~ Did I ever mention that we also photograph food? So, imagine how beautiful your wedding cake will look.

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I digressed... There are three important pieces to our engagement sessions that we always capture, which you'll notice through the images in this blog.

1. Love - It's about how he looks at her and holds her, how she plays with her hair when she talks to him, how she always laughs when he tells a joke. It is the most basic instinctive raw emotion. Yes, we capture the love and we know where to find it. ;)

2. Fun - The above images tells it all. We have a blast when we go out photographing our couples and by golly, you should too.

3. Art - We play tai chi with nature. We utilize natural sunlight in combination with flash photography to create the most beautiful and natural portraits, with a gorgeous backdrop in nature (see images below). By posing you a certain way in relation to the light, we help you shred 20 lbs without breaking a sweat.

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Engagement photography collection for us is to reach through the camera lens, pulling in the couple’s shared happiness, and recording that for them to remember.

Of course, the greatest fun with the engagement shoots is my collaboration with the couples themselves. They give me new ideas all the time. These collections of pictures reflect the freshness of relationships before the weddings, before the kids, before the mortgages. They are keepsakes as meaningful as wedding albums.

- Michael Soo

Wedding at Santana Row (part 2)

As mentioned in posts below about our Unique Selling Points, we are really proud to say that we deliver. Yes, we deliver! Every single wedding couple we photograph can expect to receive their highly customized album designs within TWO weeks. No kidding! So, you fly off to your honeymoon and by the time you return, you'll be invited to see your wonderous album.

Take our wonderful wedding shot on March 28, 2009, Roya and Todd was invited on April 7th to view their album!

Check out their album!

- Michael Soo

Baring My Soul…My Unique Selling Points

Like many of you, I am closely watching the testimony of Geithner and Bernanke on Capitol Hill and cannot help but be affected. Of the brides and grooms I recently photographed, one member of the couple has been either laid off or had a salary reduction. We are all touched by the times.

Which pulls me into contemplating my own place in the system. We still smile. We still laugh. Life goes on. But everyone needs to look before they leap with their expenses. And that brings me to the Unique Selling Points (USPs) that I have incorporated into my wedding photography efforts and my commitment to the families whom I serve.

To this end, I refuse to schedule more than two or three weddings in a single month. There are many reasons, which I’ll elaborate as I go along, but the most significant reason is, so I can ensure I have the time to fulfill my commitments to the best of my ability and satisfy the happy couples’ expectations.

My USP #1

I’m not just a vendor! As I see and experience my work, the position I hold in a wedding is as a member of the wedding party. The slide shows and wedding albums I create are legacies for families to pass along to their progeny and extended families. This is a responsibility I take seriously, and it takes a lot of time. The brides and grooms I work with meet with me in my own home; for a time, they become part of my personal life. This is one of several reasons I cannot schedule more than three weddings in a single month. Working as teams, the brides-and grooms-to-be strategize with me the mementos we will create together. This is another reason I limit my monthly commitments. I remember these conversations. During the weddings, I remember my interactions with Grandmother, Cousin, Uncle—and I try hard to use images representative of what I learned from these individuals at the time I’m snapping shots. I am integral to the wedding events I photograph, and my goal is to assemble a permanent glimpse into the emotions and joy of very, very happy days in the histories of the wedding families and their friends.

Sometimes I have to pinch myself, because I really love my job.

Hotel Valencia and Maggiano's Little Italy Wedding MTV Slideshow

Almost three days have passed since their two-days wedding at Hotel Valencia and Maggiano's Little Italy in Santana Row of San Jose.

Roya and Todd have not left my mind. They are now honeymooning in Waikiki, possibly splashing in Hanauma Bay. All our photographers have already sorted through 2290 images to come up with a slideshow for them when they return!

- Michael Soo